"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I really, really need help here (regarding alcohol and a friendship with a girl)

BannedGod

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Ok so I have this friend who is kind of an attention *****... she tries to get as much attention as she can (not by sleeping with people though) and one of her best way is to make the guy think she likes him than when she has what she wants, she just dumps him or whatever.

Now I guess I've fallen into her trap (well I'm not even sure, stupid alcohol). However, I don't love her, never have, never will... I just considered her a really great friend because she was always acting normal with me so I didn't really care about what she did around her. Now the problem is, yesterday, I went to a party and I was quite drunk, so I don't remember much. All I know is she was teasing me A LOT (ie: grabbing my ass all the time, letting me grab hers, hugging me forever, stuff like that), and it eventually got me very confused so I just left and she asked another one of my friend to go talk to me, but thats all I remember. Well this and the conclusion I made with another of my friend while I was walking back home (however I don't remember any of the facts I've based it on): She pretty much didn't care about me and to her, my friendship is pretty much nothing and she used me when I was vulnerable to get what she wanted.
Now I didn't talk to her yet about it, and I don't know how I should act... Should I forget that event since I was drunk (even though all my friends say she was acting like an attention ***** with me). Should I talk to her about it? Let her talk to me about it? Not say **** about it at all?

Any help would be really appreciated
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kings_royalty

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Ignore it, like it never happened. If she brings it up, act like it was no big deal and talk more about the party than what she was doing. If she is an attention wh*re, this will drive her nuts.

Do you have feelings for this girl, or do you just want to bang her? You are looking for something with this girl, but i haven't figured out what yet, fill me in.
 

BannedGod

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Kings_royalty said:
Ignore it, like it never happened. If she brings it up, act like it was no big deal and talk more about the party than what she was doing. If she is an attention wh*re, this will drive her nuts.

Do you have feelings for this girl, or do you just want to bang her? You are looking for something with this girl, but i haven't figured out what yet, fill me in.
None of these, I just consider her to be one of my best friend. I don't have any feelings nor do I want to bang her
 

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Ignore it. You were drunk and have no interest in them. Yet, you are posting a DJ website...
 

Kings_royalty

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BannedGod said:
None of these, I just consider her to be one of my best friend. I don't have any feelings nor do I want to bang her
If that's true, what's with this...All I know is she was teasing me A LOT . If you had no interest, on any level, you wouldn't of cared what she did, unless of course she sparked your interest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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