"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some stuff happened in my life related to family and my job. I lost my job and I got some small debts with my bills. I had to quit my job because my business parter was forced to stop funding the project.

Now I'm back home, forced to sell my car. I don't gamble any more for about 2 months now but I started to play on my playstation a lot. I don't work out, gained 15 kilo's and became fat again. I used to work out 5 times a week, that was my addiction, and had great succes with women, ejoying them. Now I don't have any plates, stay at home because I gained a lot of weight and I just can't go out running and eating clean, I stay in the same f8cked up pattern. I need my motivation back to get my self on the rail again and find a job and graduate (only 1 year left at school to get my bachelor degree).

Any tips, suggestions how to get motivation back to work out again. I just lost a lot in a short time. I invested about 15K in a project with big potential but my business partner left to Spain and has his own problems so I lost my funds..

Maybe this will sound lame to some of you guys. But I had a BMW 3 series from 2010, and it annoys me that I can only buy back a small ugly car and have to start all over again. Work out, save money, and get back at school...

I found a lot of support in the history on this forum I hope I can get a wake up call again to get back on track.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I could call my father to borrow me 2K or 3K to get rid of my bills and buy a small car probably, but I don't know if this will help me. All thoughts are welcome boys...
 
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You force yourself to do the things you don't want to. Have reasonable expectations. Once you gain momentum it'll be a little easier.
 
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Start with the easy stuff first. Losing weight won't cost you anything. Just eat less and start to exercise. This will boost your self esteem. Then you can start on the other issues.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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