"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I really need help

TheGambino

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Some stuff happened in my life related to family and my job. I lost my job and I got some small debts with my bills. I had to quit my job because my business parter was forced to stop funding the project.

Now I'm back home, forced to sell my car. I don't gamble any more for about 2 months now but I started to play on my playstation a lot. I don't work out, gained 15 kilo's and became fat again. I used to work out 5 times a week, that was my addiction, and had great succes with women, ejoying them. Now I don't have any plates, stay at home because I gained a lot of weight and I just can't go out running and eating clean, I stay in the same f8cked up pattern. I need my motivation back to get my self on the rail again and find a job and graduate (only 1 year left at school to get my bachelor degree).

Any tips, suggestions how to get motivation back to work out again. I just lost a lot in a short time. I invested about 15K in a project with big potential but my business partner left to Spain and has his own problems so I lost my funds..

Maybe this will sound lame to some of you guys. But I had a BMW 3 series from 2010, and it annoys me that I can only buy back a small ugly car and have to start all over again. Work out, save money, and get back at school...

I found a lot of support in the history on this forum I hope I can get a wake up call again to get back on track.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I could call my father to borrow me 2K or 3K to get rid of my bills and buy a small car probably, but I don't know if this will help me. All thoughts are welcome boys...
 
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You force yourself to do the things you don't want to. Have reasonable expectations. Once you gain momentum it'll be a little easier.
 
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Start with the easy stuff first. Losing weight won't cost you anything. Just eat less and start to exercise. This will boost your self esteem. Then you can start on the other issues.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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