"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I feel I am unable to be accepted by a group of people. I don't know why. I haven't figured out how to work that aspect. I feel I am more on the side, almost waiting for people to notice me. I don't know what this is a result of. Maybe Idk, not knowing how to make people feel super comfortable around me? Idk.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just act like yourself. Say whatever comes to mind. Don't try to be anyone other than yourself. When you act like yourself and not like you're trying to fit into any mold or group, you will attract the type of people who want to be around you for who you are, and by nature you will feel comfortable with those people.
 
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I feel I am unable to be accepted by a group of people. I don't know why. I haven't figured out how to work that aspect. I feel I am more on the side, almost waiting for people to notice me. I don't know what this is a result of. Maybe Idk, not knowing how to make people feel super comfortable around me? Idk.
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If you feel like you're on the side, waiting for some sign of attention, you probably are 100% right. The second half of your post included the words and phrases "I don't know, Idk, not knowing, Idk", etc. Those words alone show a sign of low confidence. Instead, realize the guy you are: bad ass, fun, down for good times, easy-going, whatever. Don't worry about anything (except maybe illnesses, lol). Better yourself, but don't worry about being shy or your flaws, focus on your strengths. You can do it man. Good luck.
 
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Did you not read Warriors post in the other topic?

Stop wasting everybodies time with your stupid topics.
 
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No, this seems like a bigger problem. Or maybe it's not. I don't know who I am enough to be myself. And it seems like when I have been myself at times, it pushed people away, or something bad happened, or I had too much self doubt. I see other people and wish I could be them. Weird, I know. But this seems like some sort of an identity crisis. Or like I am the middle, not in the front.

I guess I am too worried or anxious.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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