“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I plan to move to chicago sometime in bear future no life here or alpha male type fri

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I have good friends here but all are betas\losers\dont have a clue about this stuff and im not doing any hobbies or anything that is attracting women nor driving so i want to move chicago can i get help on how do u start fresh if your in new town like make new friends or new hobbies???
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Just go to bartender school, you will make it in somewhere. I'd add some other skills to your arsenal. It would really help if you had some friends there. I have an uncle there that would know bars downtown since that's where he grew up.
 

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Getting an industry job here let alone Bartending is very competitive especially if you have no experience. People make good money so turnover is very low. Good luck...
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dgwizdal said:
Getting an industry job here let alone Bartending is very competitive especially if you have no experience. People make good money so turnover is very low. Good luck...
Can he get in as a bouncer quicker while he waits to bartend?

It would get him exposure.
 
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