"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I plan to move to chicago sometime in bear future no life here or alpha male type fri

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I have good friends here but all are betas\losers\dont have a clue about this stuff and im not doing any hobbies or anything that is attracting women nor driving so i want to move chicago can i get help on how do u start fresh if your in new town like make new friends or new hobbies???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just go to bartender school, you will make it in somewhere. I'd add some other skills to your arsenal. It would really help if you had some friends there. I have an uncle there that would know bars downtown since that's where he grew up.
 

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Getting an industry job here let alone Bartending is very competitive especially if you have no experience. People make good money so turnover is very low. Good luck...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dgwizdal said:
Getting an industry job here let alone Bartending is very competitive especially if you have no experience. People make good money so turnover is very low. Good luck...
Can he get in as a bouncer quicker while he waits to bartend?

It would get him exposure.
 
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