"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I picked up a lesbian...Aaagh how does this happen

jafyk

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Today, I was dropping off my cousins at the bus station and I struck up a conversation with this girl who's bus wasn't coming until some 4 hrs later. We decided to meet up later before she caught her bus and hang out.
I met up with her but we didn't have much time left. We went and got lunch and took it back to my place. While we were eating and talking she kept saying how she didn't want to miss her bus. After eating I was starting to lean to get some kino started and then she told me had to go smoke and while smoking proceeded to tell me stories of how she's a lesbian. So, I asked her "so if I were to kiss you now you wouldn't kiss me back?" She said she'd back up. Anyway, I dropped her off at the station she said she was glad we met and gave me her e-mail (said her phone was broken). She said she was spontaneously going to start a life in another state and when she gets settled we should visit each other. So, my question is was this girl really a lesbian and if she was how did I miss it? Cos she also told me she couldn't believe I didn't pick up on her being a lesbian. How do you know when a girl is a lesbian or just BSing? I thought I was gonna close the deal, lol. Oh, well I made some sort of progress.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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amoka

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Fabrication. I smell low interest level. Leave and learn.
 

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Sometimes its impossible to tell unless she tells you.
But it could be worse. Last weekend I ALMOST picked-up a pregnant chick. She was seating at a table when I opened her and she was drinking beer. The thing is she never mentioned anything about it even tho we talked about many topics related to family and relationships. It wasn't until the moment that I told her to come outside (to isolate her) that I realized this chick had a huge belly.

Banging a pregnant chick who isnt my wife is just not right for me.
 

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r0cky said:
Sometimes its impossible to tell unless she tells you.
But it could be worse. Last weekend I ALMOST picked-up a pregnant chick. She was seating at a table when I opened her and she was drinking beer. The thing is she never mentioned anything about it even tho we talked about many topics related to family and relationships. It wasn't until the moment that I told her to come outside (to isolate her) that I realized this chick had a huge belly.

Banging a pregnant chick who isnt my wife is just not right for me.
what the fvck is she doing at a bar drinking beer?
 

jafyk

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She was hoping JJ might be there to keep her company, lol. Too bad Rocky turned up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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War Against Betaism

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I've had it worst...I've attracted 2 gay guys in the last month. I never knew they were gay, until they uncomfortably held my hand for 10 seconds longer after we gave each other a handshake. I don't discriminate gay guys, some of them are cool...it's just not cool when they like me >_<
 

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War Against Betaism said:
I've had it worst...I've attracted 2 gay guys in the last month. I never knew they were gay, until they uncomfortably held my hand for 10 seconds longer after we gave each other a handshake. I don't discriminate gay guys, some of them are cool...it's just not cool when they like me >_<
Lol, that sucks.
 
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