"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I picked up a lesbian...Aaagh how does this happen

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Today, I was dropping off my cousins at the bus station and I struck up a conversation with this girl who's bus wasn't coming until some 4 hrs later. We decided to meet up later before she caught her bus and hang out.
I met up with her but we didn't have much time left. We went and got lunch and took it back to my place. While we were eating and talking she kept saying how she didn't want to miss her bus. After eating I was starting to lean to get some kino started and then she told me had to go smoke and while smoking proceeded to tell me stories of how she's a lesbian. So, I asked her "so if I were to kiss you now you wouldn't kiss me back?" She said she'd back up. Anyway, I dropped her off at the station she said she was glad we met and gave me her e-mail (said her phone was broken). She said she was spontaneously going to start a life in another state and when she gets settled we should visit each other. So, my question is was this girl really a lesbian and if she was how did I miss it? Cos she also told me she couldn't believe I didn't pick up on her being a lesbian. How do you know when a girl is a lesbian or just BSing? I thought I was gonna close the deal, lol. Oh, well I made some sort of progress.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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amoka

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Fabrication. I smell low interest level. Leave and learn.
 

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Sometimes its impossible to tell unless she tells you.
But it could be worse. Last weekend I ALMOST picked-up a pregnant chick. She was seating at a table when I opened her and she was drinking beer. The thing is she never mentioned anything about it even tho we talked about many topics related to family and relationships. It wasn't until the moment that I told her to come outside (to isolate her) that I realized this chick had a huge belly.

Banging a pregnant chick who isnt my wife is just not right for me.
 

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r0cky said:
Sometimes its impossible to tell unless she tells you.
But it could be worse. Last weekend I ALMOST picked-up a pregnant chick. She was seating at a table when I opened her and she was drinking beer. The thing is she never mentioned anything about it even tho we talked about many topics related to family and relationships. It wasn't until the moment that I told her to come outside (to isolate her) that I realized this chick had a huge belly.

Banging a pregnant chick who isnt my wife is just not right for me.
what the fvck is she doing at a bar drinking beer?
 

jafyk

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She was hoping JJ might be there to keep her company, lol. Too bad Rocky turned up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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War Against Betaism

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I've had it worst...I've attracted 2 gay guys in the last month. I never knew they were gay, until they uncomfortably held my hand for 10 seconds longer after we gave each other a handshake. I don't discriminate gay guys, some of them are cool...it's just not cool when they like me >_<
 

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War Against Betaism said:
I've had it worst...I've attracted 2 gay guys in the last month. I never knew they were gay, until they uncomfortably held my hand for 10 seconds longer after we gave each other a handshake. I don't discriminate gay guys, some of them are cool...it's just not cool when they like me >_<
Lol, that sucks.
 
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