"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I picked up a lesbian...Aaagh how does this happen

jafyk

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Today, I was dropping off my cousins at the bus station and I struck up a conversation with this girl who's bus wasn't coming until some 4 hrs later. We decided to meet up later before she caught her bus and hang out.
I met up with her but we didn't have much time left. We went and got lunch and took it back to my place. While we were eating and talking she kept saying how she didn't want to miss her bus. After eating I was starting to lean to get some kino started and then she told me had to go smoke and while smoking proceeded to tell me stories of how she's a lesbian. So, I asked her "so if I were to kiss you now you wouldn't kiss me back?" She said she'd back up. Anyway, I dropped her off at the station she said she was glad we met and gave me her e-mail (said her phone was broken). She said she was spontaneously going to start a life in another state and when she gets settled we should visit each other. So, my question is was this girl really a lesbian and if she was how did I miss it? Cos she also told me she couldn't believe I didn't pick up on her being a lesbian. How do you know when a girl is a lesbian or just BSing? I thought I was gonna close the deal, lol. Oh, well I made some sort of progress.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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amoka

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Fabrication. I smell low interest level. Leave and learn.
 

r0cky

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Sometimes its impossible to tell unless she tells you.
But it could be worse. Last weekend I ALMOST picked-up a pregnant chick. She was seating at a table when I opened her and she was drinking beer. The thing is she never mentioned anything about it even tho we talked about many topics related to family and relationships. It wasn't until the moment that I told her to come outside (to isolate her) that I realized this chick had a huge belly.

Banging a pregnant chick who isnt my wife is just not right for me.
 

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r0cky said:
Sometimes its impossible to tell unless she tells you.
But it could be worse. Last weekend I ALMOST picked-up a pregnant chick. She was seating at a table when I opened her and she was drinking beer. The thing is she never mentioned anything about it even tho we talked about many topics related to family and relationships. It wasn't until the moment that I told her to come outside (to isolate her) that I realized this chick had a huge belly.

Banging a pregnant chick who isnt my wife is just not right for me.
what the fvck is she doing at a bar drinking beer?
 

jafyk

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She was hoping JJ might be there to keep her company, lol. Too bad Rocky turned up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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War Against Betaism

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I've had it worst...I've attracted 2 gay guys in the last month. I never knew they were gay, until they uncomfortably held my hand for 10 seconds longer after we gave each other a handshake. I don't discriminate gay guys, some of them are cool...it's just not cool when they like me >_<
 

jafyk

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War Against Betaism said:
I've had it worst...I've attracted 2 gay guys in the last month. I never knew they were gay, until they uncomfortably held my hand for 10 seconds longer after we gave each other a handshake. I don't discriminate gay guys, some of them are cool...it's just not cool when they like me >_<
Lol, that sucks.
 
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