"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I overdid it... RE:Value/Compliance.

lets_do_this

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Well there's this hot girl i really like.

I can honestly say i am a HG 7.5 in the looks department, and she was HB8.5...

But because of my status, my car and the game. I worked my value up to a 9.0 to her.

And probably lowered her to HB6.5

As you can see I am way above her on the scales. But I over did it I think.

I really like her, but it she told me,

"I dont think you really like me"

"you love your car more than u do me"

"you chose your car before me"

I used my car as a jealousy technique, to make her value lower than it actually is.

But now she doesnt believe that I like her at all. She thinks she is only one of my "other girls" because she knows/thinks I have alot.

What would u guys do in this situation? I think I may have over done the game, that she lost value for herself.

She now thinks she is out of my league.. Makes me sad sometimes to lower her like that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lebRambo

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well at least you know that your DHV techniques are working, just try to tone them down a little and repair the damage done by pointing out some good things about her (sparingly, and not obviously).
 

Distant Light

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Do things that will bring her value in you up again.

You should compliment her once her twice during the day.

Nothing about her looks though.
 

Shiftkey

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This conversation tells me nothing. Did you try to close? If so, what happened? If not, why not? Maybe you should stop trying to analyze how much she likes you and focus more on closing.
 

C00L

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just start making out with here an sucking her titties. she'l soon realize her temporary value..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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