"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I overdid it... RE:Value/Compliance.

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lets_do_this

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Well there's this hot girl i really like.

I can honestly say i am a HG 7.5 in the looks department, and she was HB8.5...

But because of my status, my car and the game. I worked my value up to a 9.0 to her.

And probably lowered her to HB6.5

As you can see I am way above her on the scales. But I over did it I think.

I really like her, but it she told me,

"I dont think you really like me"

"you love your car more than u do me"

"you chose your car before me"

I used my car as a jealousy technique, to make her value lower than it actually is.

But now she doesnt believe that I like her at all. She thinks she is only one of my "other girls" because she knows/thinks I have alot.

What would u guys do in this situation? I think I may have over done the game, that she lost value for herself.

She now thinks she is out of my league.. Makes me sad sometimes to lower her like that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well at least you know that your DHV techniques are working, just try to tone them down a little and repair the damage done by pointing out some good things about her (sparingly, and not obviously).
 
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Do things that will bring her value in you up again.

You should compliment her once her twice during the day.

Nothing about her looks though.
 
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This conversation tells me nothing. Did you try to close? If so, what happened? If not, why not? Maybe you should stop trying to analyze how much she likes you and focus more on closing.
 
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C00L

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just start making out with here an sucking her titties. she'l soon realize her temporary value..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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