"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I overdid it... RE:Value/Compliance.

lets_do_this

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Well there's this hot girl i really like.

I can honestly say i am a HG 7.5 in the looks department, and she was HB8.5...

But because of my status, my car and the game. I worked my value up to a 9.0 to her.

And probably lowered her to HB6.5

As you can see I am way above her on the scales. But I over did it I think.

I really like her, but it she told me,

"I dont think you really like me"

"you love your car more than u do me"

"you chose your car before me"

I used my car as a jealousy technique, to make her value lower than it actually is.

But now she doesnt believe that I like her at all. She thinks she is only one of my "other girls" because she knows/thinks I have alot.

What would u guys do in this situation? I think I may have over done the game, that she lost value for herself.

She now thinks she is out of my league.. Makes me sad sometimes to lower her like that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lebRambo

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well at least you know that your DHV techniques are working, just try to tone them down a little and repair the damage done by pointing out some good things about her (sparingly, and not obviously).
 

Distant Light

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Do things that will bring her value in you up again.

You should compliment her once her twice during the day.

Nothing about her looks though.
 

Shiftkey

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This conversation tells me nothing. Did you try to close? If so, what happened? If not, why not? Maybe you should stop trying to analyze how much she likes you and focus more on closing.
 

C00L

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just start making out with here an sucking her titties. she'l soon realize her temporary value..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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