"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I only get dates with asexual girls with low sex drive. Wtf!
- Thread starter sosousage
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
the girls who like sex are easy to get sexual with, if she doesn't wanna kiss on the first date, makes you wait 3+ dates before you get laid, sex talk/sexual conversation/heavy flirting doesn't happen much you're gonna wind up with a boring prude.
The flipside is that it'll be hard to find a girl who actually likes sex that isnt a huge slvt that has banged 20 guys by age 20 and has 4 FWBs.
So pick what you care more about
The girls who like sechs probably only do with alphas. A beta won’t be able to escalate with those girls
kk im beta you are alpha
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Until you alter the shape of your jaw
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Yea except that the girl in question has to find you attractive in order to be receptive to your sexual aggression.
TheMonkeyKing
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If I go on a second date with q bird, it's because I want to have sex with her. At the very least. And I tell her. Something like, "I want to be inside you", or "Let's go back to my place", is a pretty clear message of intent. Long story short, you're not escalating appropriately.
In boils down to how passionate u r and how effective u r.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
If she doesn't find you attractive, none of that matters.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction = Looks, passion & effectiveness
Money & social status helps but the above is enough to get women
RichardTheFrog
Banned
And my point is...
If she doesn't find you attractive, all the passion in the world won't help you.
My point is, 4 her to find you attractive you'll need those that I posted above.
But if u r lacking in those department.
You can fall back to money and status. That "might" get you a few girls - a segment of girls.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I know a lot of chubby slvts with low standards
I dont even have wrong looking jaw
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
wrong....I know a guy whose 5'5, 140 pounds and probably would die in a fist fight
He fuccs hot girls all the time (taller too) at one point he would take the train to the field he finally just bought a car
But according to you he is alpha cause he can bangs a different hotgirl every week?