"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

I only get dates with asexual girls with low sex drive. Wtf!

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,547
Reaction score
1,219
Age
36
If a girl has big sex drive she usually rejects me.

I only get dates with calm girls

Right now i keep contact with 3-4 girls none of them is into sex, but none of them friendzoned me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

devilkingx2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 9, 2013
Messages
4,521
Reaction score
2,229
Location
NYC
Are you screening properly?

the girls who like sex are easy to get sexual with, if she doesn't wanna kiss on the first date, makes you wait 3+ dates before you get laid, sex talk/sexual conversation/heavy flirting doesn't happen much you're gonna wind up with a boring prude.

The flipside is that it'll be hard to find a girl who actually likes sex that isnt a huge slvt that has banged 20 guys by age 20 and has 4 FWBs.

So pick what you care more about
 

skinnyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2013
Messages
3,422
Reaction score
1,235
Are you screening properly?

the girls who like sex are easy to get sexual with, if she doesn't wanna kiss on the first date, makes you wait 3+ dates before you get laid, sex talk/sexual conversation/heavy flirting doesn't happen much you're gonna wind up with a boring prude.

The flipside is that it'll be hard to find a girl who actually likes sex that isnt a huge slvt that has banged 20 guys by age 20 and has 4 FWBs.

So pick what you care more about
The girls who like sechs probably only do with alphas. A beta won’t be able to escalate with those girls
 

Spaz

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2018
Messages
8,337
Reaction score
6,878
No such thing as beta or alpha

Nerd talk.

It's either u r s€Xually aggressive or passive.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

TheMonkeyKing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2014
Messages
2,327
Reaction score
1,419
The women that you attract in to your life, sh!t every person, is a direct reflection of yourself. If you're attracting asexuality, that's because you're giving off the vibe in some way.

If I go on a second date with q bird, it's because I want to have sex with her. At the very least. And I tell her. Something like, "I want to be inside you", or "Let's go back to my place", is a pretty clear message of intent. Long story short, you're not escalating appropriately.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Spaz

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2018
Messages
8,337
Reaction score
6,878
And my point is...

If she doesn't find you attractive, all the passion in the world won't help you.
My point is, 4 her to find you attractive you'll need those that I posted above.

But if u r lacking in those department.

You can fall back to money and status. That "might" get you a few girls - a segment of girls.
 

devilkingx2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 9, 2013
Messages
4,521
Reaction score
2,229
Location
NYC
The girls who like sechs probably only do with alphas. A beta won’t be able to escalate with those girls
I know a lot of chubby slvts with low standards
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,548
Reaction score
4,100
Location
Inside her mind
The girls who like sechs probably only do with alphas. A beta won’t be able to escalate with those girls
wrong....I know a guy whose 5'5, 140 pounds and probably would die in a fist fight

He fuccs hot girls all the time (taller too) at one point he would take the train to the field he finally just bought a car

But according to you he is alpha cause he can bangs a different hotgirl every week?
 
Top