"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I only get dates with asexual girls with low sex drive. Wtf!
- Thread starter sosousage
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
the girls who like sex are easy to get sexual with, if she doesn't wanna kiss on the first date, makes you wait 3+ dates before you get laid, sex talk/sexual conversation/heavy flirting doesn't happen much you're gonna wind up with a boring prude.
The flipside is that it'll be hard to find a girl who actually likes sex that isnt a huge slvt that has banged 20 guys by age 20 and has 4 FWBs.
So pick what you care more about
The girls who like sechs probably only do with alphas. A beta won’t be able to escalate with those girls
kk im beta you are alpha
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Until you alter the shape of your jaw
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Yea except that the girl in question has to find you attractive in order to be receptive to your sexual aggression.
TheMonkeyKing
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If I go on a second date with q bird, it's because I want to have sex with her. At the very least. And I tell her. Something like, "I want to be inside you", or "Let's go back to my place", is a pretty clear message of intent. Long story short, you're not escalating appropriately.
In boils down to how passionate u r and how effective u r.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
If she doesn't find you attractive, none of that matters.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction = Looks, passion & effectiveness
Money & social status helps but the above is enough to get women
RichardTheFrog
Banned
And my point is...
If she doesn't find you attractive, all the passion in the world won't help you.
My point is, 4 her to find you attractive you'll need those that I posted above.
But if u r lacking in those department.
You can fall back to money and status. That "might" get you a few girls - a segment of girls.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I know a lot of chubby slvts with low standards
I dont even have wrong looking jaw
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
wrong....I know a guy whose 5'5, 140 pounds and probably would die in a fist fight
He fuccs hot girls all the time (taller too) at one point he would take the train to the field he finally just bought a car
But according to you he is alpha cause he can bangs a different hotgirl every week?