"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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and also, forget her. coworkers are bad news. however, DON'T give her the cold shoulder. Become good friends with her, spit your game, but do nice things for her (mainly like helping her around the job). That way, she won't see you as a good match for her, but a PERFECT match for one of her friends. If you learn nothong else, know this. Hot girls ALWAYS have hot friends.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Aprenti$playa&pimp said:
and also, forget her. coworkers are bad news. however, DON'T give her the cold shoulder. Become good friends with her, spit your game, but do nice things for her (mainly like helping her around the job). That way, she won't see you as a good match for her, but a PERFECT match for one of her friends. If you learn nothong else, know this. Hot girls ALWAYS have hot friends.

haha very nice

I'm impressed :yes:
 

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Learn from me! Co-workers are a no fly zone unless,and this is the only exception....You are willing to lose your job. Example,you meet some women on the street,take her out,have a good time and got to kiss her,you either ;
a-your kiss is accepted and she kissed back
b-she says no and pushes you away w/o any repacushion

Now at work,you meet the chick,start to flirt,flirting turns to mild kino,mild kino turns into heavy kino,heavy kino turns into the point where you want to kiss her, now here are your choices;
a-you kiss her there;if she isn't a slut she will ramble to someone because it will be so "riskay/daring/entertaining" to be doing it at work and you will be in trouble cause someone will run their mouth(always happens).Now work *****s will do something like this,bang a guy in an office and never tell anyone,it's how they are.
b-you go to kiss her and she doesnt like it;she complains your fired no matter how much she led you on!
c-you get into a situation like I did;they lead you on,now you know the only way to finish the deal is to kiss her,but your job means to much to you. Now you sit there wondering what would have happened if I did kiss her,but at the same time it's all I can do is wonder cause I need my paycheck.

Just get the digits and set up a lunch.
 

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Forget about all this "safe" advice. You live only once. What if this woman is the love of your life? Or even a great lay? If she is free and you too, why not?

Show her you like her with eye contact, body language and showing you care with little details (like saying you missed her if she stays home sick or bringing her coffee when you get yours if she drinks coffe too). Women notice and like that kind of suttle stuff (at least I do). But don't overdo it. If she doesn't anwer with straight and consistent eye contact any time soon she is problaby not interested.

If you see she responds, then ask her if she wants to have lunch with you on a work day and take ir from there.

Remember - you live only once.

:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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