"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I need your help in picking up a co-worker older than me!

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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and also, forget her. coworkers are bad news. however, DON'T give her the cold shoulder. Become good friends with her, spit your game, but do nice things for her (mainly like helping her around the job). That way, she won't see you as a good match for her, but a PERFECT match for one of her friends. If you learn nothong else, know this. Hot girls ALWAYS have hot friends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aprenti$playa&pimp said:
and also, forget her. coworkers are bad news. however, DON'T give her the cold shoulder. Become good friends with her, spit your game, but do nice things for her (mainly like helping her around the job). That way, she won't see you as a good match for her, but a PERFECT match for one of her friends. If you learn nothong else, know this. Hot girls ALWAYS have hot friends.

haha very nice

I'm impressed :yes:
 

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Learn from me! Co-workers are a no fly zone unless,and this is the only exception....You are willing to lose your job. Example,you meet some women on the street,take her out,have a good time and got to kiss her,you either ;
a-your kiss is accepted and she kissed back
b-she says no and pushes you away w/o any repacushion

Now at work,you meet the chick,start to flirt,flirting turns to mild kino,mild kino turns into heavy kino,heavy kino turns into the point where you want to kiss her, now here are your choices;
a-you kiss her there;if she isn't a slut she will ramble to someone because it will be so "riskay/daring/entertaining" to be doing it at work and you will be in trouble cause someone will run their mouth(always happens).Now work *****s will do something like this,bang a guy in an office and never tell anyone,it's how they are.
b-you go to kiss her and she doesnt like it;she complains your fired no matter how much she led you on!
c-you get into a situation like I did;they lead you on,now you know the only way to finish the deal is to kiss her,but your job means to much to you. Now you sit there wondering what would have happened if I did kiss her,but at the same time it's all I can do is wonder cause I need my paycheck.

Just get the digits and set up a lunch.
 

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Forget about all this "safe" advice. You live only once. What if this woman is the love of your life? Or even a great lay? If she is free and you too, why not?

Show her you like her with eye contact, body language and showing you care with little details (like saying you missed her if she stays home sick or bringing her coffee when you get yours if she drinks coffe too). Women notice and like that kind of suttle stuff (at least I do). But don't overdo it. If she doesn't anwer with straight and consistent eye contact any time soon she is problaby not interested.

If you see she responds, then ask her if she wants to have lunch with you on a work day and take ir from there.

Remember - you live only once.

:)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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