"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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and also, forget her. coworkers are bad news. however, DON'T give her the cold shoulder. Become good friends with her, spit your game, but do nice things for her (mainly like helping her around the job). That way, she won't see you as a good match for her, but a PERFECT match for one of her friends. If you learn nothong else, know this. Hot girls ALWAYS have hot friends.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aprenti$playa&pimp said:
and also, forget her. coworkers are bad news. however, DON'T give her the cold shoulder. Become good friends with her, spit your game, but do nice things for her (mainly like helping her around the job). That way, she won't see you as a good match for her, but a PERFECT match for one of her friends. If you learn nothong else, know this. Hot girls ALWAYS have hot friends.

haha very nice

I'm impressed :yes:
 

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Learn from me! Co-workers are a no fly zone unless,and this is the only exception....You are willing to lose your job. Example,you meet some women on the street,take her out,have a good time and got to kiss her,you either ;
a-your kiss is accepted and she kissed back
b-she says no and pushes you away w/o any repacushion

Now at work,you meet the chick,start to flirt,flirting turns to mild kino,mild kino turns into heavy kino,heavy kino turns into the point where you want to kiss her, now here are your choices;
a-you kiss her there;if she isn't a slut she will ramble to someone because it will be so "riskay/daring/entertaining" to be doing it at work and you will be in trouble cause someone will run their mouth(always happens).Now work *****s will do something like this,bang a guy in an office and never tell anyone,it's how they are.
b-you go to kiss her and she doesnt like it;she complains your fired no matter how much she led you on!
c-you get into a situation like I did;they lead you on,now you know the only way to finish the deal is to kiss her,but your job means to much to you. Now you sit there wondering what would have happened if I did kiss her,but at the same time it's all I can do is wonder cause I need my paycheck.

Just get the digits and set up a lunch.
 

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Forget about all this "safe" advice. You live only once. What if this woman is the love of your life? Or even a great lay? If she is free and you too, why not?

Show her you like her with eye contact, body language and showing you care with little details (like saying you missed her if she stays home sick or bringing her coffee when you get yours if she drinks coffe too). Women notice and like that kind of suttle stuff (at least I do). But don't overdo it. If she doesn't anwer with straight and consistent eye contact any time soon she is problaby not interested.

If you see she responds, then ask her if she wants to have lunch with you on a work day and take ir from there.

Remember - you live only once.

:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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