Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I need u players to tell me what to do...

kingtut21

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i got this issue
i like this girl a lot... and we're both studying abroad away from our homes
she has a bf and its always up and down between them
i kno she likes me back, but im confused i dont kno how much
but i still dont kno if she wants to break up with her bf
what do i do to get in? what should i do? help a rookie out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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aftershock

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First of all, read the DJ Bible. It's very long but worthwhile.

Second of all, a search is always a good idea. Theres been a similar thread on this today. As your question is very general a search should suffice. If you want a more specfic answer then provide more details.

Third, go and meet other women. Pvssy is pvssy.

Fourth, I believe that all women are single so I'd have no hesitations in going for it.
 

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aftershock said:
First of all, read the DJ Bible. It's very long but worthwhile.

Second of all, a search is always a good idea. Theres been a similar thread on this today. As your question is very general a search should suffice. If you want a more specfic answer then provide more details.

Third, go and meet other women. Pvssy is pvssy.

Fourth, I believe that all women are single so I'd have no hesitations in going for it.

True, read the bible.

aftershock not all women are single.
 

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Honestly man, it sounds like you're fighting a losing battle. One of two things can happen:

1. You do not get her. Move on.
2. You get her. Guess what? She dumped her boyfriend for you, and when you're her boyfriend she's going to dump you for someone else. There is ALWAYS someone cooler, richer, better looking, more intelligent, etc etc than you.

Why do you think she's still in it with that guy? The ups and downs give her a lot of emotional entertainment. It's exciting for her.

Let it go man.
 

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Oh man, you sound like you have it bad. You should read the bible. It actually is a good read. This way you will learn how to handle yourself without having to beg for help.

Good luck to you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ProtoMan1 said:
Even the married and those with established relationships? :eek: :nono: :flowers:
Established relationship? Bollocks. Most women aren't happy in relationships.

Marriage is a different propsition, although if I liked her enough I'd still go for it. If there were kids involved I wouldn't, but for the fact that I'm not into mothers, rather than the welfare of the kids.

The less morals you have, the more sex you get. And I like sex more than I like morals.
 

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Thanks guys for the help... i figured im going to drop her just for the sake of her bf... its weird but i was at her house the night of her anniversary with her bf, and it clicked that im not doing the right thing (2 years for them).. and anyways if she's still with him after all this time, shes gotta love him over me, i just accepted it
Thanks for the help and ive already started reading the bible
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PRMoon

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For f*cks sake your in a semestar abroad! I can't think of a better opportunity to meet some smokin hot girls in other countries. Why are you focusing on one of the girls in your group? There's serious potential and expriences that you're going to miss out on if you don't take advantage.
 

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How do you even know she likes you? A lot of guys play themselves with this.

She might be flirting with you for the immediate attention that shes not getting all the time from her man. Women in relationships talk to other guys and even go on dates with other guys, who they have no intention of doing anything sexually with, so they can get attention.
 
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