"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i got this issue
i like this girl a lot... and we're both studying abroad away from our homes
she has a bf and its always up and down between them
i kno she likes me back, but im confused i dont kno how much
but i still dont kno if she wants to break up with her bf
what do i do to get in? what should i do? help a rookie out
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First of all, read the DJ Bible. It's very long but worthwhile.

Second of all, a search is always a good idea. Theres been a similar thread on this today. As your question is very general a search should suffice. If you want a more specfic answer then provide more details.

Third, go and meet other women. Pvssy is pvssy.

Fourth, I believe that all women are single so I'd have no hesitations in going for it.
 
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aftershock said:
First of all, read the DJ Bible. It's very long but worthwhile.

Second of all, a search is always a good idea. Theres been a similar thread on this today. As your question is very general a search should suffice. If you want a more specfic answer then provide more details.

Third, go and meet other women. Pvssy is pvssy.

Fourth, I believe that all women are single so I'd have no hesitations in going for it.
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True, read the bible.

aftershock not all women are single.
 
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Honestly man, it sounds like you're fighting a losing battle. One of two things can happen:

1. You do not get her. Move on.
2. You get her. Guess what? She dumped her boyfriend for you, and when you're her boyfriend she's going to dump you for someone else. There is ALWAYS someone cooler, richer, better looking, more intelligent, etc etc than you.

Why do you think she's still in it with that guy? The ups and downs give her a lot of emotional entertainment. It's exciting for her.

Let it go man.
 
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Oh man, you sound like you have it bad. You should read the bible. It actually is a good read. This way you will learn how to handle yourself without having to beg for help.

Good luck to you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ProtoMan1 said:
Even the married and those with established relationships? :eek: :nono: :flowers:
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Established relationship? Bollocks. Most women aren't happy in relationships.

Marriage is a different propsition, although if I liked her enough I'd still go for it. If there were kids involved I wouldn't, but for the fact that I'm not into mothers, rather than the welfare of the kids.

The less morals you have, the more sex you get. And I like sex more than I like morals.
 
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Thanks guys for the help... i figured im going to drop her just for the sake of her bf... its weird but i was at her house the night of her anniversary with her bf, and it clicked that im not doing the right thing (2 years for them).. and anyways if she's still with him after all this time, shes gotta love him over me, i just accepted it
Thanks for the help and ive already started reading the bible
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PRMoon

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For f*cks sake your in a semestar abroad! I can't think of a better opportunity to meet some smokin hot girls in other countries. Why are you focusing on one of the girls in your group? There's serious potential and expriences that you're going to miss out on if you don't take advantage.
 
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How do you even know she likes you? A lot of guys play themselves with this.

She might be flirting with you for the immediate attention that shes not getting all the time from her man. Women in relationships talk to other guys and even go on dates with other guys, who they have no intention of doing anything sexually with, so they can get attention.
 
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