"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need u players to tell me what to do...

kingtut21

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i got this issue
i like this girl a lot... and we're both studying abroad away from our homes
she has a bf and its always up and down between them
i kno she likes me back, but im confused i dont kno how much
but i still dont kno if she wants to break up with her bf
what do i do to get in? what should i do? help a rookie out
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aftershock

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First of all, read the DJ Bible. It's very long but worthwhile.

Second of all, a search is always a good idea. Theres been a similar thread on this today. As your question is very general a search should suffice. If you want a more specfic answer then provide more details.

Third, go and meet other women. Pvssy is pvssy.

Fourth, I believe that all women are single so I'd have no hesitations in going for it.
 

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aftershock said:
First of all, read the DJ Bible. It's very long but worthwhile.

Second of all, a search is always a good idea. Theres been a similar thread on this today. As your question is very general a search should suffice. If you want a more specfic answer then provide more details.

Third, go and meet other women. Pvssy is pvssy.

Fourth, I believe that all women are single so I'd have no hesitations in going for it.

True, read the bible.

aftershock not all women are single.
 

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Honestly man, it sounds like you're fighting a losing battle. One of two things can happen:

1. You do not get her. Move on.
2. You get her. Guess what? She dumped her boyfriend for you, and when you're her boyfriend she's going to dump you for someone else. There is ALWAYS someone cooler, richer, better looking, more intelligent, etc etc than you.

Why do you think she's still in it with that guy? The ups and downs give her a lot of emotional entertainment. It's exciting for her.

Let it go man.
 

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Oh man, you sound like you have it bad. You should read the bible. It actually is a good read. This way you will learn how to handle yourself without having to beg for help.

Good luck to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ProtoMan1 said:
Even the married and those with established relationships? :eek: :nono: :flowers:
Established relationship? Bollocks. Most women aren't happy in relationships.

Marriage is a different propsition, although if I liked her enough I'd still go for it. If there were kids involved I wouldn't, but for the fact that I'm not into mothers, rather than the welfare of the kids.

The less morals you have, the more sex you get. And I like sex more than I like morals.
 

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Thanks guys for the help... i figured im going to drop her just for the sake of her bf... its weird but i was at her house the night of her anniversary with her bf, and it clicked that im not doing the right thing (2 years for them).. and anyways if she's still with him after all this time, shes gotta love him over me, i just accepted it
Thanks for the help and ive already started reading the bible
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PRMoon

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For f*cks sake your in a semestar abroad! I can't think of a better opportunity to meet some smokin hot girls in other countries. Why are you focusing on one of the girls in your group? There's serious potential and expriences that you're going to miss out on if you don't take advantage.
 

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How do you even know she likes you? A lot of guys play themselves with this.

She might be flirting with you for the immediate attention that shes not getting all the time from her man. Women in relationships talk to other guys and even go on dates with other guys, who they have no intention of doing anything sexually with, so they can get attention.
 
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