"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MacDiddy

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Girls and social status are inextricably linked... and never mutually exclusive. I've never seen anyone with high social value have no interest in chicks or have no success in getting chicks.. Unless you're gay of course.

You need to understand women for the slut that they are, and make no mistake, there's always a slut in them... understand that the way that they behave (flakiness, *****iness... the list goes on) is rooted deep in their genetics and will have no demonstratable logic at first. So accept it. Working within that framework...

eg. Say you have arranged a date with a chick. Say said chick finds a man of higher value and flakes on you. She'll cancel your date and give you some BS excuse that will have you racking your brains as to why. You accept her excuse on face value and adjust your game to suit, on the mistaken premise that you will improve.. You won't of course improve on false information.

I'd suggest you read up on David DeAngelo's Double your dating ebook as a starter.. He does a great job in explaining chick logic or lack thereof to newbies..
 
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I've been reading some of DD's stuff for a while now. I never purchased anything but I've read the e-mails and listened to a few audio tapes that I found from "elsewhere".
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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