Girls and social status are inextricably linked... and never mutually exclusive. I've never seen anyone with high social value have no interest in chicks or have no success in getting chicks.. Unless you're gay of course.
You need to understand women for the slut that they are, and make no mistake, there's always a slut in them... understand that the way that they behave (flakiness, *****iness... the list goes on) is rooted deep in their genetics and will have no demonstratable logic at first. So accept it. Working within that framework...
eg. Say you have arranged a date with a chick. Say said chick finds a man of higher value and flakes on you. She'll cancel your date and give you some BS excuse that will have you racking your brains as to why. You accept her excuse on face value and adjust your game to suit, on the mistaken premise that you will improve.. You won't of course improve on false information.
I'd suggest you read up on David DeAngelo's Double your dating ebook as a starter.. He does a great job in explaining chick logic or lack thereof to newbies..
