"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MacDiddy

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Girls and social status are inextricably linked... and never mutually exclusive. I've never seen anyone with high social value have no interest in chicks or have no success in getting chicks.. Unless you're gay of course.

You need to understand women for the slut that they are, and make no mistake, there's always a slut in them... understand that the way that they behave (flakiness, *****iness... the list goes on) is rooted deep in their genetics and will have no demonstratable logic at first. So accept it. Working within that framework...

eg. Say you have arranged a date with a chick. Say said chick finds a man of higher value and flakes on you. She'll cancel your date and give you some BS excuse that will have you racking your brains as to why. You accept her excuse on face value and adjust your game to suit, on the mistaken premise that you will improve.. You won't of course improve on false information.

I'd suggest you read up on David DeAngelo's Double your dating ebook as a starter.. He does a great job in explaining chick logic or lack thereof to newbies..
 

BxPrince24

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I've been reading some of DD's stuff for a while now. I never purchased anything but I've read the e-mails and listened to a few audio tapes that I found from "elsewhere".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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