"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i need to make more friends

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need some help and tips how i can make more friends guys or girls doesnt matter that can be good and trustworthy and that i can get to go out with.

Whats best places easiest and quickest ways to do this? Help appreciated

thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Negative....

Start hanging out at places u like to be at. Slowly...u will be seen and then just coincidentally meet people if you first say hi.

Example....i like to jog at this place but i have to take the train there. Over time since i keep up with that activity and schedule i run into people who are on similar paths. Then i approach. Then u have to hang out with ur new friend to see if hes cool. Like i took this dude out for drinks and girls. But turns out hes more boring and talks about his ex. So next lol.

Seriously...imagine a world with no cell phones and you want to make an acquaintance. How would you do it?
Babies know how. Just smile and be ur glorious self. Put away everything that is false like ur negative mind...unnecessary worries...and be thankful you dont have a learning disability that would be super hard to make friends.
 

sylvester the cat

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thelonewolflegend said:
need some help and tips how i can make more friends guys or girls doesnt matter that can be good and trustworthy and that i can get to go out with.

Whats best places easiest and quickest ways to do this? Help appreciated

thanks
where are you based? UK? USA?
 

mangotot

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Get yourself a genuine hobby you will enjoy, you'll meet like minded people.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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_sideways_

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Dungeons and dragons....volunteer work.

P.s. you sound like an old man who lost his wife now is lost cuz he never had interests outside the V.
 

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I think anybody can use more friends. However, you do that, if you have trouble doing that, by working on yourself internally, which can take some time.
 
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Go on a solo trip to some city you've never been to and stay at a hostel. Seems counter intuitive but you'll be forced to talk to people and you'll literally meet people from all over the world. It's truly an eye opening experience.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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