"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i need to make more friends

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need some help and tips how i can make more friends guys or girls doesnt matter that can be good and trustworthy and that i can get to go out with.

Whats best places easiest and quickest ways to do this? Help appreciated

thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Negative....

Start hanging out at places u like to be at. Slowly...u will be seen and then just coincidentally meet people if you first say hi.

Example....i like to jog at this place but i have to take the train there. Over time since i keep up with that activity and schedule i run into people who are on similar paths. Then i approach. Then u have to hang out with ur new friend to see if hes cool. Like i took this dude out for drinks and girls. But turns out hes more boring and talks about his ex. So next lol.

Seriously...imagine a world with no cell phones and you want to make an acquaintance. How would you do it?
Babies know how. Just smile and be ur glorious self. Put away everything that is false like ur negative mind...unnecessary worries...and be thankful you dont have a learning disability that would be super hard to make friends.
 

sylvester the cat

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thelonewolflegend said:
need some help and tips how i can make more friends guys or girls doesnt matter that can be good and trustworthy and that i can get to go out with.

Whats best places easiest and quickest ways to do this? Help appreciated

thanks
where are you based? UK? USA?
 

mangotot

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Get yourself a genuine hobby you will enjoy, you'll meet like minded people.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dungeons and dragons....volunteer work.

P.s. you sound like an old man who lost his wife now is lost cuz he never had interests outside the V.
 

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I think anybody can use more friends. However, you do that, if you have trouble doing that, by working on yourself internally, which can take some time.
 
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Go on a solo trip to some city you've never been to and stay at a hostel. Seems counter intuitive but you'll be forced to talk to people and you'll literally meet people from all over the world. It's truly an eye opening experience.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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