"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I need to learn to dance

CoolRunning

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I really want to learn to dance (to pop stuff, techno, etc). I hate not having some cool moves. Here's what I'm looking for,

1) Any websites you can point me to, on basic moves for guys (or a term that will help me google it)

2) Any recommendations you have on how to look cool while dancing.

3) Any links or videos of guys dancing that I can try to learn from.

My plan is to practice a little every day in the mirror at home. Should be kind of fun now that I think about it. You could ask why I don't just go to a club and practice, well, I think I need to see myself to know if it looks awkward or not. I am pretty tall, so lots of things a shorter guy could do, I can't, without looking goofy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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$BD

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if ur looking for a hiphop move..

go and download W.C. - Cripwalk at Up in Smoke tour..

he was amazing.. but it takes time to learn it
 

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Whatever you do,do not and I repeat do not learn that stupid hardcore dancing. Everyone doing that looks like a idiot.
 

CoolRunning

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Well thanks guys, but any concrete advice?
 

blinkwatt

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You ever seen the movie,Hitch on the dancing segment? Just follow that,I try to not do anything stupid when "freak" dancing and that movie seemed to cover dancing plain and simple.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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$BD

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Watch ''You Got Served''

you can learn some kick ass dancemoves from that
 

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I try to make a point not to post unless I can speak from experience. It turns out that I've had quite a few good and bad experiences.

Hitch, it's covered plain and simple. In a regular dance setting, less is more. It's best to keep yourself in an area where you can keep eye contact. That's important.

Also, if you have time, find a ballroom dancing class, or swing dancing. Believe it or not, those have worked wonders for me. In fact, swing lessons are a great way to meet women. And when I say women, I mean women with allot of energy to burn, and every intention for you to help them burn it...wink wink...

It's also good to have a few cultural dances up your sleeves. I knew a greek girl who pretty much went for me after she found out I knew a traditional greek dance. It was sloppy, and the only one I knew, but it got me brownie points anyway.

And if you can learn to TEACH a sort of dance, that increases the dating potential (kind of like being a dance DJ. You're a magnet). Personally, I've had experiences with the coreography of theatrical dances. Oddly enough, that works for some girls. The fact that my name is Matthias helps with the artsy appeal.

Generally though, Hitch pretty much had it straight, I'd say.

Matthias
 

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get one of your girlfriends to help you. It is probably the best way to learn.
 
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