"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I need to learn to dance

CoolRunning

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I really want to learn to dance (to pop stuff, techno, etc). I hate not having some cool moves. Here's what I'm looking for,

1) Any websites you can point me to, on basic moves for guys (or a term that will help me google it)

2) Any recommendations you have on how to look cool while dancing.

3) Any links or videos of guys dancing that I can try to learn from.

My plan is to practice a little every day in the mirror at home. Should be kind of fun now that I think about it. You could ask why I don't just go to a club and practice, well, I think I need to see myself to know if it looks awkward or not. I am pretty tall, so lots of things a shorter guy could do, I can't, without looking goofy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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$BD

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if ur looking for a hiphop move..

go and download W.C. - Cripwalk at Up in Smoke tour..

he was amazing.. but it takes time to learn it
 

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Whatever you do,do not and I repeat do not learn that stupid hardcore dancing. Everyone doing that looks like a idiot.
 

CoolRunning

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Well thanks guys, but any concrete advice?
 

blinkwatt

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You ever seen the movie,Hitch on the dancing segment? Just follow that,I try to not do anything stupid when "freak" dancing and that movie seemed to cover dancing plain and simple.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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$BD

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Watch ''You Got Served''

you can learn some kick ass dancemoves from that
 

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I try to make a point not to post unless I can speak from experience. It turns out that I've had quite a few good and bad experiences.

Hitch, it's covered plain and simple. In a regular dance setting, less is more. It's best to keep yourself in an area where you can keep eye contact. That's important.

Also, if you have time, find a ballroom dancing class, or swing dancing. Believe it or not, those have worked wonders for me. In fact, swing lessons are a great way to meet women. And when I say women, I mean women with allot of energy to burn, and every intention for you to help them burn it...wink wink...

It's also good to have a few cultural dances up your sleeves. I knew a greek girl who pretty much went for me after she found out I knew a traditional greek dance. It was sloppy, and the only one I knew, but it got me brownie points anyway.

And if you can learn to TEACH a sort of dance, that increases the dating potential (kind of like being a dance DJ. You're a magnet). Personally, I've had experiences with the coreography of theatrical dances. Oddly enough, that works for some girls. The fact that my name is Matthias helps with the artsy appeal.

Generally though, Hitch pretty much had it straight, I'd say.

Matthias
 

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get one of your girlfriends to help you. It is probably the best way to learn.
 
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