"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need to learn to dance

CoolRunning

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I really want to learn to dance (to pop stuff, techno, etc). I hate not having some cool moves. Here's what I'm looking for,

1) Any websites you can point me to, on basic moves for guys (or a term that will help me google it)

2) Any recommendations you have on how to look cool while dancing.

3) Any links or videos of guys dancing that I can try to learn from.

My plan is to practice a little every day in the mirror at home. Should be kind of fun now that I think about it. You could ask why I don't just go to a club and practice, well, I think I need to see myself to know if it looks awkward or not. I am pretty tall, so lots of things a shorter guy could do, I can't, without looking goofy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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$BD

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if ur looking for a hiphop move..

go and download W.C. - Cripwalk at Up in Smoke tour..

he was amazing.. but it takes time to learn it
 

blinkwatt

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Whatever you do,do not and I repeat do not learn that stupid hardcore dancing. Everyone doing that looks like a idiot.
 

CoolRunning

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Well thanks guys, but any concrete advice?
 

blinkwatt

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You ever seen the movie,Hitch on the dancing segment? Just follow that,I try to not do anything stupid when "freak" dancing and that movie seemed to cover dancing plain and simple.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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$BD

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Watch ''You Got Served''

you can learn some kick ass dancemoves from that
 

Matthias

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I try to make a point not to post unless I can speak from experience. It turns out that I've had quite a few good and bad experiences.

Hitch, it's covered plain and simple. In a regular dance setting, less is more. It's best to keep yourself in an area where you can keep eye contact. That's important.

Also, if you have time, find a ballroom dancing class, or swing dancing. Believe it or not, those have worked wonders for me. In fact, swing lessons are a great way to meet women. And when I say women, I mean women with allot of energy to burn, and every intention for you to help them burn it...wink wink...

It's also good to have a few cultural dances up your sleeves. I knew a greek girl who pretty much went for me after she found out I knew a traditional greek dance. It was sloppy, and the only one I knew, but it got me brownie points anyway.

And if you can learn to TEACH a sort of dance, that increases the dating potential (kind of like being a dance DJ. You're a magnet). Personally, I've had experiences with the coreography of theatrical dances. Oddly enough, that works for some girls. The fact that my name is Matthias helps with the artsy appeal.

Generally though, Hitch pretty much had it straight, I'd say.

Matthias
 

bauer_23

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get one of your girlfriends to help you. It is probably the best way to learn.
 
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