"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I need some SERIOUS advice....
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Its not oneitis man. But its a challenge, and I love challenges! Plus, I have other options, but I want to see if all this DJ stuff can even corrupt a Mormon, it be interesting to know, and I'll for sure keep you all updated.
So I take it your saying I have a shot, considering she's already kinda broken the rules.
Thats my plan, she's already crossed a bit, considereing your not allowed to hold hands, ahah wacky religion.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Royal Elite
Banned
Listen bro, women were put here for us! Women will always change to please the guy they are crazy about. Women have always been spoils of war, because they are easily adaptable creatures.
If you game is tight you will have her screaming "oh God like" the sinner she will believe she is!!!
ShizamDaMan
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Good luck kid
Plan is
Try to corrupt her
Go for other chicks, and blow this one off sometimes, considering she's a work in progress.
(She has white hot chocolate - she made sure there wasn't caffeine in it. I was creeped out by that, until I read about Mormon's haha.)
Prolly just end up pulling a Snoop if this chick won't change in a week, and 'drop it like its hot'.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.