"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I need some SERIOUS advice....
- Thread starter Bussey
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Its not oneitis man. But its a challenge, and I love challenges! Plus, I have other options, but I want to see if all this DJ stuff can even corrupt a Mormon, it be interesting to know, and I'll for sure keep you all updated.
So I take it your saying I have a shot, considering she's already kinda broken the rules.
Thats my plan, she's already crossed a bit, considereing your not allowed to hold hands, ahah wacky religion.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Royal Elite
Banned
Listen bro, women were put here for us! Women will always change to please the guy they are crazy about. Women have always been spoils of war, because they are easily adaptable creatures.
If you game is tight you will have her screaming "oh God like" the sinner she will believe she is!!!
ShizamDaMan
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Good luck kid
Plan is
Try to corrupt her
Go for other chicks, and blow this one off sometimes, considering she's a work in progress.
(She has white hot chocolate - she made sure there wasn't caffeine in it. I was creeped out by that, until I read about Mormon's haha.)
Prolly just end up pulling a Snoop if this chick won't change in a week, and 'drop it like its hot'.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.