Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I need some serious advice!

Fitch

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Hey guys.


I'm only 16 and I'm worrying about College and beyond...a little too much.

I wish to become an attorney. Yet, ironically - im bogged down with doubts...wtf?! (I hate this...)

I want to be successful and be happy...but i keep putting myself down...whenever i do something fun like hanging out with friends...and even dating sometimes - i feel like i should be preparing for Law, and that doing something fun is a waste of time...when i rather...yeah you get the picture...

When i come home i turn on the pc and play a little...and i regret that too...god wtf...

Help...plz haha :-/

EDIT ::: I know for a fact, when i get this straightened out...i'll improve with EVERYTHING else - dating, etc.
This worry floods my mind - daily.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Barbillus

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YOu should not be posting in the Mature Forum you are SIXTEEN.

Read the rules.

As for your problem, you are young, have fun. High School and College are some of the best years of your life.. you live in a freaking BUBBLE so don't worry about what happens after that. Just enjoy it, have fun, go party, and study something that YOU find interesting.
 

Ricky

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I played alot of guitar and studied alot in high school. You aren't going to stay with some girl you meet in high school anyways and if you do you are going to miss out on all the college girls.

A little time invested in your education in high school and college willl put you way ahead of all the smucks who are partying now. Remember that.

A ****ty career doth a ****ty marriage and life make. I think I can tell you that alot of people end up hating their jobs. If you are going to hate your job, at least hopefully you make a decent wage to kill the pain a bit.

I feel so fortunate that now in my 30's I'm finally finding a career I love, that will as a bonus pay me more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Giovanni Casanova

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