"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I need some serious advice!

Fitch

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Hey guys.


I'm only 16 and I'm worrying about College and beyond...a little too much.

I wish to become an attorney. Yet, ironically - im bogged down with doubts...wtf?! (I hate this...)

I want to be successful and be happy...but i keep putting myself down...whenever i do something fun like hanging out with friends...and even dating sometimes - i feel like i should be preparing for Law, and that doing something fun is a waste of time...when i rather...yeah you get the picture...

When i come home i turn on the pc and play a little...and i regret that too...god wtf...

Help...plz haha :-/

EDIT ::: I know for a fact, when i get this straightened out...i'll improve with EVERYTHING else - dating, etc.
This worry floods my mind - daily.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Barbillus

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YOu should not be posting in the Mature Forum you are SIXTEEN.

Read the rules.

As for your problem, you are young, have fun. High School and College are some of the best years of your life.. you live in a freaking BUBBLE so don't worry about what happens after that. Just enjoy it, have fun, go party, and study something that YOU find interesting.
 

Ricky

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I played alot of guitar and studied alot in high school. You aren't going to stay with some girl you meet in high school anyways and if you do you are going to miss out on all the college girls.

A little time invested in your education in high school and college willl put you way ahead of all the smucks who are partying now. Remember that.

A ****ty career doth a ****ty marriage and life make. I think I can tell you that alot of people end up hating their jobs. If you are going to hate your job, at least hopefully you make a decent wage to kill the pain a bit.

I feel so fortunate that now in my 30's I'm finally finding a career I love, that will as a bonus pay me more.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Giovanni Casanova

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