"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I need some SERIOUS advice please...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
x2xgamer said:Telling me to tell her to get an abortion when I clearly stated that she won't is simply an example of your incompetence.
It is an example of me saying you are an incompetent AFC. :kick:
You're also a troll.. You came in, I want advice, give me advice.. Turns out you already know what to do. You neither can take a woman getting pregnant like a man nor take advice on how to get rid of the baby like man..
I know, it's hard to hear that you're incompetent and don't know what you doing and failed at getting her getting an abortion. It's as if you're immature and young or something.
Troll. :kick:
On a touchy subject like abortion, people who have their minds made up are nearly impossible to turn around. It dosen't make an AFC. You're attributing something which I cannot change (her not wanting an abortion) to me being an 'AFC'. Your posts are a joke, and they get funnier and funnier each time.
I don't already know what to do...but I know what's NOT going to work, and if you could read, then maybe you would too.
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This is the best advice that you are going to get....there is an old saying, "The die has been cast!" - meaning that you can do nothing about it! It's too late - the deed has been done and she will have the baby. So you should not worry about it because there is nothing you can do to change the result - so quit stressing! Learn from this!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
x2xgamer said:Joke? What's wrong with some of you people? Can you not read?
please only serious responses. i appreciate it
Yes it's a joke. You should get professional help.
I have blood on my shirt because someone shot me, can you guys help me?
@ OP, it sounds like you have pretty much everything planned out anyway. you're going to finish med school, do everything to find out if it is your baby in the first place, if it is then assume the responsibilities- if not next her. In regards to not wanting her to see other men, while not wanting to be involved with her- kind of selfish view don't you think? it's like her telling you not to see other women while she isn't giving you any.
p.s @last man standing, hahaha that was a good read, seriously made me lol.
edit: wrong person, lol
Last Man Standing said:The only sure way of not getting a woman pregnant is to abstain from sex!!!
Abstain from sex? You are asking some of the horniest, most frisky afc's to do the impossible.
One minute of pleasure, 18 years of pain.
DavenJuan
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dont you realize that somebody might actually take consideration to what you tell them.
be careful withh your words. especially in a situation like this.
as far as the OP. there really is nothing to discuss. deed is done. MAN UP and be a father . (if this child is yours)
Maxtro
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I hate how a man has no say in matters like this. It's as much his kid as it is hers.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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