"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I need some SERIOUS advice please...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
x2xgamer said:Telling me to tell her to get an abortion when I clearly stated that she won't is simply an example of your incompetence.
It is an example of me saying you are an incompetent AFC. :kick:
You're also a troll.. You came in, I want advice, give me advice.. Turns out you already know what to do. You neither can take a woman getting pregnant like a man nor take advice on how to get rid of the baby like man..
I know, it's hard to hear that you're incompetent and don't know what you doing and failed at getting her getting an abortion. It's as if you're immature and young or something.
Troll. :kick:
On a touchy subject like abortion, people who have their minds made up are nearly impossible to turn around. It dosen't make an AFC. You're attributing something which I cannot change (her not wanting an abortion) to me being an 'AFC'. Your posts are a joke, and they get funnier and funnier each time.
I don't already know what to do...but I know what's NOT going to work, and if you could read, then maybe you would too.
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This is the best advice that you are going to get....there is an old saying, "The die has been cast!" - meaning that you can do nothing about it! It's too late - the deed has been done and she will have the baby. So you should not worry about it because there is nothing you can do to change the result - so quit stressing! Learn from this!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
x2xgamer said:Joke? What's wrong with some of you people? Can you not read?
please only serious responses. i appreciate it
Yes it's a joke. You should get professional help.
I have blood on my shirt because someone shot me, can you guys help me?
@ OP, it sounds like you have pretty much everything planned out anyway. you're going to finish med school, do everything to find out if it is your baby in the first place, if it is then assume the responsibilities- if not next her. In regards to not wanting her to see other men, while not wanting to be involved with her- kind of selfish view don't you think? it's like her telling you not to see other women while she isn't giving you any.
p.s @last man standing, hahaha that was a good read, seriously made me lol.
edit: wrong person, lol
Last Man Standing said:The only sure way of not getting a woman pregnant is to abstain from sex!!!
Abstain from sex? You are asking some of the horniest, most frisky afc's to do the impossible.
One minute of pleasure, 18 years of pain.
DavenJuan
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dont you realize that somebody might actually take consideration to what you tell them.
be careful withh your words. especially in a situation like this.
as far as the OP. there really is nothing to discuss. deed is done. MAN UP and be a father . (if this child is yours)
Maxtro
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I hate how a man has no say in matters like this. It's as much his kid as it is hers.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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