"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I need some SERIOUS advice please...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
x2xgamer said:Telling me to tell her to get an abortion when I clearly stated that she won't is simply an example of your incompetence.
It is an example of me saying you are an incompetent AFC. :kick:
You're also a troll.. You came in, I want advice, give me advice.. Turns out you already know what to do. You neither can take a woman getting pregnant like a man nor take advice on how to get rid of the baby like man..
I know, it's hard to hear that you're incompetent and don't know what you doing and failed at getting her getting an abortion. It's as if you're immature and young or something.
Troll. :kick:
On a touchy subject like abortion, people who have their minds made up are nearly impossible to turn around. It dosen't make an AFC. You're attributing something which I cannot change (her not wanting an abortion) to me being an 'AFC'. Your posts are a joke, and they get funnier and funnier each time.
I don't already know what to do...but I know what's NOT going to work, and if you could read, then maybe you would too.
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This is the best advice that you are going to get....there is an old saying, "The die has been cast!" - meaning that you can do nothing about it! It's too late - the deed has been done and she will have the baby. So you should not worry about it because there is nothing you can do to change the result - so quit stressing! Learn from this!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
x2xgamer said:Joke? What's wrong with some of you people? Can you not read?
please only serious responses. i appreciate it
Yes it's a joke. You should get professional help.
I have blood on my shirt because someone shot me, can you guys help me?
@ OP, it sounds like you have pretty much everything planned out anyway. you're going to finish med school, do everything to find out if it is your baby in the first place, if it is then assume the responsibilities- if not next her. In regards to not wanting her to see other men, while not wanting to be involved with her- kind of selfish view don't you think? it's like her telling you not to see other women while she isn't giving you any.
p.s @last man standing, hahaha that was a good read, seriously made me lol.
edit: wrong person, lol
Last Man Standing said:The only sure way of not getting a woman pregnant is to abstain from sex!!!
Abstain from sex? You are asking some of the horniest, most frisky afc's to do the impossible.
One minute of pleasure, 18 years of pain.
DavenJuan
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dont you realize that somebody might actually take consideration to what you tell them.
be careful withh your words. especially in a situation like this.
as far as the OP. there really is nothing to discuss. deed is done. MAN UP and be a father . (if this child is yours)
Maxtro
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I hate how a man has no say in matters like this. It's as much his kid as it is hers.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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