HOT_CHILLI
Don Juan
i know it sounds stupid, but i need some more hobbies. im into photography, editing, computers, sketching, music but i need somethign more...i feel like im short of intrests
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
i need some more hobbies...i know this sounds stupid...
- Thread starter HOT_CHILLI
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
I think I might have a similar problem.
My hobbies; Rugby, Football, Reading, Basketball, Console Games. That's about it :l
My hobbies; Rugby, Football, Reading, Basketball, Console Games. That's about it :l
HOT CHILI your from Brunswick...well im not to far away from you mate, i live in the western suburbs 
In reply to both you guys it doesnt matter how many hobbies you guys have...it's about how much of your time you put into these hobbies. Some people might only have one or two hobbies but it takes up much more time as opposed to someone who may have five or six hobbies. Follow the point im making?
In reply to both you guys it doesnt matter how many hobbies you guys have...it's about how much of your time you put into these hobbies. Some people might only have one or two hobbies but it takes up much more time as opposed to someone who may have five or six hobbies. Follow the point im making?
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
maybe working out ?
It helps with confidence too .
It helps with confidence too .
john paul
Senior Don Juan
Accually im kinda interested in what hobbies people enjoy.
I lift, play ultimate frisbee and frisbee golf but thats pretty much it. Getting a guitar for my birthday so ill be starting on that and I think I want to fish this summer more often.
What are some of your hobbies everyone?
I lift, play ultimate frisbee and frisbee golf but thats pretty much it. Getting a guitar for my birthday so ill be starting on that and I think I want to fish this summer more often.
What are some of your hobbies everyone?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
lifting, road cycling (and now maintenance/repairs cuz of a frequently malfunctioning bike), music, bass guitar (I won't be playing for longer, but entertaining), reading, cooking I guess, comp games on occasion.
Hiking sometimes..I really should use the equipment instead of just store it in my trunk. The weather is nice for it.
Hiking sometimes..I really should use the equipment instead of just store it in my trunk. The weather is nice for it.
Darth_Qurashi
Don Juan
Some of my hobbies are watching movies, watching tv, and playing video games. lol. But I play guitar a lot, that's like my biggest hobby, but its getting repaired so right now i just ride my bike around my area or surf the net.
The best thing in the world is bodybuilding
Start it as a hobby and it will eventually turn into a lifestyle that will raise the quality of your life in every possible area.
Don't pick hobbies just to have something to do between the time you wake up and go to bed. Pick things that you genuinely enjoy and will make you happy and a better person.
Start it as a hobby and it will eventually turn into a lifestyle that will raise the quality of your life in every possible area.
Don't pick hobbies just to have something to do between the time you wake up and go to bed. Pick things that you genuinely enjoy and will make you happy and a better person.
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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ultimate frisbee
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Young Anikan
Don Juan
Young Anikan's hobbies
I love playing basketball,drawing,playing marvel vs capcom 2,love playing cards,love partying,love to make music,love to find and go on new adventures,love to travel,damn it I love not staying home and meeting new people,yea that pretty much somes it up.Thats my life in New york city,fast.
I love playing basketball,drawing,playing marvel vs capcom 2,love playing cards,love partying,love to make music,love to find and go on new adventures,love to travel,damn it I love not staying home and meeting new people,yea that pretty much somes it up.Thats my life in New york city,fast.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
These are some great lists, i see people saying a lot of things that i enjoy myself. Iv watched some auzzie football before and i wish i understood all the rules becuase it looks intense. Maybe a little too intense for me. Ill stick with ultimate frisbee.
And i see a lot of people play some kind of guitar. Makes me more excited to start up on it.
I think cooking might be an important one that I have neglected. I already enjoy cooking but I think its something i could really get into if I tryed making some more challenging things.
And i see a lot of people play some kind of guitar. Makes me more excited to start up on it.
I think cooking might be an important one that I have neglected. I already enjoy cooking but I think its something i could really get into if I tryed making some more challenging things.
foxintehsnow
Don Juan
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i collect video games as a hobby honestly i find it great you meet alot of new people and socilze alot at many thrift stores and game stores also you make profit after time. plus who doesn't like playing pac man?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.