HOT_CHILLI
Don Juan
i know it sounds stupid, but i need some more hobbies. im into photography, editing, computers, sketching, music but i need somethign more...i feel like im short of intrests
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
i need some more hobbies...i know this sounds stupid...
- Thread starter HOT_CHILLI
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
I think I might have a similar problem.
My hobbies; Rugby, Football, Reading, Basketball, Console Games. That's about it :l
My hobbies; Rugby, Football, Reading, Basketball, Console Games. That's about it :l
HOT CHILI your from Brunswick...well im not to far away from you mate, i live in the western suburbs 
In reply to both you guys it doesnt matter how many hobbies you guys have...it's about how much of your time you put into these hobbies. Some people might only have one or two hobbies but it takes up much more time as opposed to someone who may have five or six hobbies. Follow the point im making?
In reply to both you guys it doesnt matter how many hobbies you guys have...it's about how much of your time you put into these hobbies. Some people might only have one or two hobbies but it takes up much more time as opposed to someone who may have five or six hobbies. Follow the point im making?
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
maybe working out ?
It helps with confidence too .
It helps with confidence too .
john paul
Senior Don Juan
Accually im kinda interested in what hobbies people enjoy.
I lift, play ultimate frisbee and frisbee golf but thats pretty much it. Getting a guitar for my birthday so ill be starting on that and I think I want to fish this summer more often.
What are some of your hobbies everyone?
I lift, play ultimate frisbee and frisbee golf but thats pretty much it. Getting a guitar for my birthday so ill be starting on that and I think I want to fish this summer more often.
What are some of your hobbies everyone?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lifting, road cycling (and now maintenance/repairs cuz of a frequently malfunctioning bike), music, bass guitar (I won't be playing for longer, but entertaining), reading, cooking I guess, comp games on occasion.
Hiking sometimes..I really should use the equipment instead of just store it in my trunk. The weather is nice for it.
Hiking sometimes..I really should use the equipment instead of just store it in my trunk. The weather is nice for it.
Darth_Qurashi
Don Juan
Some of my hobbies are watching movies, watching tv, and playing video games. lol. But I play guitar a lot, that's like my biggest hobby, but its getting repaired so right now i just ride my bike around my area or surf the net.
The best thing in the world is bodybuilding
Start it as a hobby and it will eventually turn into a lifestyle that will raise the quality of your life in every possible area.
Don't pick hobbies just to have something to do between the time you wake up and go to bed. Pick things that you genuinely enjoy and will make you happy and a better person.
Start it as a hobby and it will eventually turn into a lifestyle that will raise the quality of your life in every possible area.
Don't pick hobbies just to have something to do between the time you wake up and go to bed. Pick things that you genuinely enjoy and will make you happy and a better person.
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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ultimate frisbee
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Young Anikan
Don Juan
Young Anikan's hobbies
I love playing basketball,drawing,playing marvel vs capcom 2,love playing cards,love partying,love to make music,love to find and go on new adventures,love to travel,damn it I love not staying home and meeting new people,yea that pretty much somes it up.Thats my life in New york city,fast.
I love playing basketball,drawing,playing marvel vs capcom 2,love playing cards,love partying,love to make music,love to find and go on new adventures,love to travel,damn it I love not staying home and meeting new people,yea that pretty much somes it up.Thats my life in New york city,fast.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
These are some great lists, i see people saying a lot of things that i enjoy myself. Iv watched some auzzie football before and i wish i understood all the rules becuase it looks intense. Maybe a little too intense for me. Ill stick with ultimate frisbee.
And i see a lot of people play some kind of guitar. Makes me more excited to start up on it.
I think cooking might be an important one that I have neglected. I already enjoy cooking but I think its something i could really get into if I tryed making some more challenging things.
And i see a lot of people play some kind of guitar. Makes me more excited to start up on it.
I think cooking might be an important one that I have neglected. I already enjoy cooking but I think its something i could really get into if I tryed making some more challenging things.
foxintehsnow
Don Juan
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i collect video games as a hobby honestly i find it great you meet alot of new people and socilze alot at many thrift stores and game stores also you make profit after time. plus who doesn't like playing pac man?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.