HOT_CHILLI
Don Juan
i know it sounds stupid, but i need some more hobbies. im into photography, editing, computers, sketching, music but i need somethign more...i feel like im short of intrests
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i need some more hobbies...i know this sounds stupid...
- Thread starter HOT_CHILLI
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
I think I might have a similar problem.
My hobbies; Rugby, Football, Reading, Basketball, Console Games. That's about it :l
My hobbies; Rugby, Football, Reading, Basketball, Console Games. That's about it :l
HOT CHILI your from Brunswick...well im not to far away from you mate, i live in the western suburbs 
In reply to both you guys it doesnt matter how many hobbies you guys have...it's about how much of your time you put into these hobbies. Some people might only have one or two hobbies but it takes up much more time as opposed to someone who may have five or six hobbies. Follow the point im making?
In reply to both you guys it doesnt matter how many hobbies you guys have...it's about how much of your time you put into these hobbies. Some people might only have one or two hobbies but it takes up much more time as opposed to someone who may have five or six hobbies. Follow the point im making?
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
maybe working out ?
It helps with confidence too .
It helps with confidence too .
john paul
Senior Don Juan
Accually im kinda interested in what hobbies people enjoy.
I lift, play ultimate frisbee and frisbee golf but thats pretty much it. Getting a guitar for my birthday so ill be starting on that and I think I want to fish this summer more often.
What are some of your hobbies everyone?
I lift, play ultimate frisbee and frisbee golf but thats pretty much it. Getting a guitar for my birthday so ill be starting on that and I think I want to fish this summer more often.
What are some of your hobbies everyone?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
lifting, road cycling (and now maintenance/repairs cuz of a frequently malfunctioning bike), music, bass guitar (I won't be playing for longer, but entertaining), reading, cooking I guess, comp games on occasion.
Hiking sometimes..I really should use the equipment instead of just store it in my trunk. The weather is nice for it.
Hiking sometimes..I really should use the equipment instead of just store it in my trunk. The weather is nice for it.
Darth_Qurashi
Don Juan
Some of my hobbies are watching movies, watching tv, and playing video games. lol. But I play guitar a lot, that's like my biggest hobby, but its getting repaired so right now i just ride my bike around my area or surf the net.
The best thing in the world is bodybuilding
Start it as a hobby and it will eventually turn into a lifestyle that will raise the quality of your life in every possible area.
Don't pick hobbies just to have something to do between the time you wake up and go to bed. Pick things that you genuinely enjoy and will make you happy and a better person.
Start it as a hobby and it will eventually turn into a lifestyle that will raise the quality of your life in every possible area.
Don't pick hobbies just to have something to do between the time you wake up and go to bed. Pick things that you genuinely enjoy and will make you happy and a better person.
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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ultimate frisbee
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Young Anikan
Don Juan
Young Anikan's hobbies
I love playing basketball,drawing,playing marvel vs capcom 2,love playing cards,love partying,love to make music,love to find and go on new adventures,love to travel,damn it I love not staying home and meeting new people,yea that pretty much somes it up.Thats my life in New york city,fast.
I love playing basketball,drawing,playing marvel vs capcom 2,love playing cards,love partying,love to make music,love to find and go on new adventures,love to travel,damn it I love not staying home and meeting new people,yea that pretty much somes it up.Thats my life in New york city,fast.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
These are some great lists, i see people saying a lot of things that i enjoy myself. Iv watched some auzzie football before and i wish i understood all the rules becuase it looks intense. Maybe a little too intense for me. Ill stick with ultimate frisbee.
And i see a lot of people play some kind of guitar. Makes me more excited to start up on it.
I think cooking might be an important one that I have neglected. I already enjoy cooking but I think its something i could really get into if I tryed making some more challenging things.
And i see a lot of people play some kind of guitar. Makes me more excited to start up on it.
I think cooking might be an important one that I have neglected. I already enjoy cooking but I think its something i could really get into if I tryed making some more challenging things.
foxintehsnow
Don Juan
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i collect video games as a hobby honestly i find it great you meet alot of new people and socilze alot at many thrift stores and game stores also you make profit after time. plus who doesn't like playing pac man?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.