"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I Need some major advice here

Target_100

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I havent heard from her today, I know she is partying with her ex.

I'm not going to contact her, just wait and see what happens.

I have a feeling that she might text me after the party is over and ask me to come and pick her up, if that happens, I think I'll just indicate that I am with some other girls and that I am busy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Befuddled

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get your money back and forget about her.

You're no ones backup guy.

And besides.....your a guy, you dont need the dramas.

Fvck her if you can, but get rid of the leash (your money).
 

Kidquick

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it's amazing how often girls do what they want, and then later offer some kind of pvssy ass excuse and inevitably get us to turn into friggon pvssy-whipped-without-a-clue guys
Damn, that really hit home with me and my current situation...thanks for the wake up call Befuddled. :(
 

Target_100

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It looks like its going to work out now, but You never know with mental nut case hos. At least I learned a lesson. I should hit myself for being so dumb...
 

Ballistik

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I should hit myself for being so dumb...
I second this.

Get the fvck in her then get the fvck outa there.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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