You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Triple T said:thanks guys so far.
I like the punkrocker one, not too intense but catchy.and i've never heard it before. Punkrocker is a good example. Any other suggestions tho?
Therion - O fortunaTriple T said:I'm looking for songs that "build up" lose yourself by emeniem is a good example. Or those other songs they use in trailers that are all dramatic and everything.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
its good, but I think i need something different. This one sounds just like every other one i've heard so far.Aboleo said:Therion - O fortuna
http://youtube.com/watch?v=yzAe_xWpJgM
to me, I think it just has too much rock.LostAndConfused said: