cablecow15
Master Don Juan
ok this girl has made arrangements to meet me at the movies and give me a bj .i dont know her very well so if i wear a condom will it protect me from any oraly transferd stds?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i need some help
- Thread starter cablecow15
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
an oral condom would protect you however why do you want a bj from a girl you dont know very well?
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
well weve been iming eachother for a while and she started geting kinky with ehr words and i eventualy flirted my way into her offering a bj so yea ive never got one before so this should be a lerning experiance lol
pr0teus
Don Juan
Condom is certainly a good idea if she has cold sores and you don't like the idea of "downstairs-cold-sores" (herpes).
But why not just as well stay home and jack off? A bj at the movies with a complete stranger doesn't exactly sound like a recipie for a long-term relationship (or even short term or one-night-stand for that matter). Plus you don't have to leave your house for an awkward back alley with a handful of rodents for an audience.
But why not just as well stay home and jack off? A bj at the movies with a complete stranger doesn't exactly sound like a recipie for a long-term relationship (or even short term or one-night-stand for that matter). Plus you don't have to leave your house for an awkward back alley with a handful of rodents for an audience.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
i dont know im gonna go and just see what happens im not worried about anything and if it comes down to it ive got condoms this girls bi too .shes moving soon so i doubt therell be a good relationship
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.