cablecow15
Master Don Juan
ok this girl has made arrangements to meet me at the movies and give me a bj .i dont know her very well so if i wear a condom will it protect me from any oraly transferd stds?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
i need some help
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
an oral condom would protect you however why do you want a bj from a girl you dont know very well?
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
well weve been iming eachother for a while and she started geting kinky with ehr words and i eventualy flirted my way into her offering a bj so yea ive never got one before so this should be a lerning experiance lol
pr0teus
Don Juan
Condom is certainly a good idea if she has cold sores and you don't like the idea of "downstairs-cold-sores" (herpes).
But why not just as well stay home and jack off? A bj at the movies with a complete stranger doesn't exactly sound like a recipie for a long-term relationship (or even short term or one-night-stand for that matter). Plus you don't have to leave your house for an awkward back alley with a handful of rodents for an audience.
But why not just as well stay home and jack off? A bj at the movies with a complete stranger doesn't exactly sound like a recipie for a long-term relationship (or even short term or one-night-stand for that matter). Plus you don't have to leave your house for an awkward back alley with a handful of rodents for an audience.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
i dont know im gonna go and just see what happens im not worried about anything and if it comes down to it ive got condoms this girls bi too .shes moving soon so i doubt therell be a good relationship
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.