cablecow15
Master Don Juan
ok this girl has made arrangements to meet me at the movies and give me a bj .i dont know her very well so if i wear a condom will it protect me from any oraly transferd stds?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i need some help
- Thread starter cablecow15
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
an oral condom would protect you however why do you want a bj from a girl you dont know very well?
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
well weve been iming eachother for a while and she started geting kinky with ehr words and i eventualy flirted my way into her offering a bj so yea ive never got one before so this should be a lerning experiance lol
pr0teus
Don Juan
Condom is certainly a good idea if she has cold sores and you don't like the idea of "downstairs-cold-sores" (herpes).
But why not just as well stay home and jack off? A bj at the movies with a complete stranger doesn't exactly sound like a recipie for a long-term relationship (or even short term or one-night-stand for that matter). Plus you don't have to leave your house for an awkward back alley with a handful of rodents for an audience.
But why not just as well stay home and jack off? A bj at the movies with a complete stranger doesn't exactly sound like a recipie for a long-term relationship (or even short term or one-night-stand for that matter). Plus you don't have to leave your house for an awkward back alley with a handful of rodents for an audience.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
i dont know im gonna go and just see what happens im not worried about anything and if it comes down to it ive got condoms this girls bi too .shes moving soon so i doubt therell be a good relationship
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.