"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I need some advice

Vikman

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On the way out from work today, I approached one of my female co-workers (the one I want to go out with) and said to her, "Wow, it's hot outside. I'm going to the ice cream shop for some ice cream. Come with me." She said "Okay". (FYI: Keep in mind I didn't ask her to come with me, I told her to.)

So we sat and ate ice cream (she even paid for me, even though I didn't ask her to). After talking (and finishing my ice cream) I looked at my watch and said, "I have to go. Let's continue this conversation later. I'll give you a call." She gave me her #, I gave her mine and she begged me to call her later. I didn't give her an answer on that.

Now what???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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penkitten

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weren't you suppose to say you would call... but then just leave her hanging waiting by the phone?
 

bond21

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Call her then breath into the phone for 5 seconds then hang up.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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bond21 said:
Call her then breath into the phone for 5 seconds then hang up.
Then the next day at work, sneak up behind her, yank on her hair and then turn and run. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Scorched

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Then the next day at work, sneak up behind her, yank on her hair and then turn and run. :D
No lol.

Call her the 2nd day.

Keep it short and funny.
 
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