"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I need some advice

Vikman

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On the way out from work today, I approached one of my female co-workers (the one I want to go out with) and said to her, "Wow, it's hot outside. I'm going to the ice cream shop for some ice cream. Come with me." She said "Okay". (FYI: Keep in mind I didn't ask her to come with me, I told her to.)

So we sat and ate ice cream (she even paid for me, even though I didn't ask her to). After talking (and finishing my ice cream) I looked at my watch and said, "I have to go. Let's continue this conversation later. I'll give you a call." She gave me her #, I gave her mine and she begged me to call her later. I didn't give her an answer on that.

Now what???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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penkitten

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weren't you suppose to say you would call... but then just leave her hanging waiting by the phone?
 

bond21

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Call her then breath into the phone for 5 seconds then hang up.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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bond21 said:
Call her then breath into the phone for 5 seconds then hang up.
Then the next day at work, sneak up behind her, yank on her hair and then turn and run. :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scorched

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Then the next day at work, sneak up behind her, yank on her hair and then turn and run. :D
No lol.

Call her the 2nd day.

Keep it short and funny.
 
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