"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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On the way out from work today, I approached one of my female co-workers (the one I want to go out with) and said to her, "Wow, it's hot outside. I'm going to the ice cream shop for some ice cream. Come with me." She said "Okay". (FYI: Keep in mind I didn't ask her to come with me, I told her to.)

So we sat and ate ice cream (she even paid for me, even though I didn't ask her to). After talking (and finishing my ice cream) I looked at my watch and said, "I have to go. Let's continue this conversation later. I'll give you a call." She gave me her #, I gave her mine and she begged me to call her later. I didn't give her an answer on that.

Now what???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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weren't you suppose to say you would call... but then just leave her hanging waiting by the phone?
 
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Call her then breath into the phone for 5 seconds then hang up.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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bond21 said:
Call her then breath into the phone for 5 seconds then hang up.
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Then the next day at work, sneak up behind her, yank on her hair and then turn and run. :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Then the next day at work, sneak up behind her, yank on her hair and then turn and run. :D
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No lol.

Call her the 2nd day.

Keep it short and funny.
 
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