"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wutmorecanisay

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I have to tell u all im a new member.

I need advice on this one girl. Shes really cute and shes in my grade (sophomore). We were in a class together last semester where we really hit it off. She sent all the sginals that would make me think she was interested, but since she was the hottest girl in our school hands down in the eyes of every other guy, i thot it was impossible. We had great times in that class but now we dont have it together n e more. This semested a mutual friend of ours has called me on m a one occation when this girl was over her house. I talked to the girl i liked and finally told her. She sed awww and things like that, but she has been seeing this other kid since september. Theyve been off and on, and I never really get wuts up wit them. Im not much of a ladies man, but I do want to b one. I got no game, and it sucks. So please gie me some help on wut I shud do wit this girl. Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RaMar

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First, I would also not use the term "hit it off" when talking about flirting with one another in a classroom enviornment. To me at least that means more along the lines of getting sexual with her.

I think telling her that you like her outright like that was a big mistake. You should be asking her out on dates and whatnot, not telling her you like her.

Finally, it doesn't sound like you've read much (if any of the DJ bible). Check it out. It's floated at the top of this thread.
 

wutmorecanisay

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this was all about 2 weeks ago and i am not a ladies man...i read the bible today tho and it inspired me so much that at my buddys house i used almost evrtchnique i learned there on these girls just for practice

i still dont kno wut to do wit this girl now tho
 

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damn you read the whole bible in one day!? Now thats dedication. Keep it up, and I recommend not holding onto this other girl. You may have already ruined your chances with her.
 

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just NEXT! this one and use your newfound knowledge to work other girls, screw this one man, u will "like" plenty more as much as you like her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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