"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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wutmorecanisay

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I have to tell u all im a new member.

I need advice on this one girl. Shes really cute and shes in my grade (sophomore). We were in a class together last semester where we really hit it off. She sent all the sginals that would make me think she was interested, but since she was the hottest girl in our school hands down in the eyes of every other guy, i thot it was impossible. We had great times in that class but now we dont have it together n e more. This semested a mutual friend of ours has called me on m a one occation when this girl was over her house. I talked to the girl i liked and finally told her. She sed awww and things like that, but she has been seeing this other kid since september. Theyve been off and on, and I never really get wuts up wit them. Im not much of a ladies man, but I do want to b one. I got no game, and it sucks. So please gie me some help on wut I shud do wit this girl. Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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First, I would also not use the term "hit it off" when talking about flirting with one another in a classroom enviornment. To me at least that means more along the lines of getting sexual with her.

I think telling her that you like her outright like that was a big mistake. You should be asking her out on dates and whatnot, not telling her you like her.

Finally, it doesn't sound like you've read much (if any of the DJ bible). Check it out. It's floated at the top of this thread.
 

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this was all about 2 weeks ago and i am not a ladies man...i read the bible today tho and it inspired me so much that at my buddys house i used almost evrtchnique i learned there on these girls just for practice

i still dont kno wut to do wit this girl now tho
 

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damn you read the whole bible in one day!? Now thats dedication. Keep it up, and I recommend not holding onto this other girl. You may have already ruined your chances with her.
 

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just NEXT! this one and use your newfound knowledge to work other girls, screw this one man, u will "like" plenty more as much as you like her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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