I NEED HELP

[Austin]

Hello good evening Brothers

I have something that I would love to share with you all..I don't know why I feel this way

1. I'm angry most of the time, my anger issues are just so bad. My anger issues go through many forms..the fact that I haven't found my purpose yet in life....I feel so angry when I'm not productive.
I just start my day and I'm so pissed off...I work around with my face frowned

2. This one is the worst but I'm beginning to hate women.. I think this is because I'm broke at the moment and I can't date anyone
I just see them as wicked people and I see all of them are cheaters.
I was discussing with my friend and he asked me one question "why do you hate women?"
I don't know how to snap out of this

I was in a situation where a woman asked me for help, the look I gave her scared her away and I just walked out.

Please how do I snap out of this

 

[Plinco]

Hello good evening Brothers

I have something that I would love to share with you all..I don't know why I feel this way

1. I'm angry most of the time, my anger issues are just so bad. My anger issues go through many forms..the fact that I haven't found my purpose yet in life....I feel so angry when I'm not productive.
I just start my day and I'm so pissed off...I work around with my face frowned

2. This one is the worst but I'm beginning to hate women.. I think this is because I'm broke at the moment and I can't date anyone
I just see them as wicked people and I see all of them are cheaters.
I was discussing with my friend and he asked me one question "why do you hate women?"
I don't know how to snap out of this

I was in a situation where a woman asked me for help, the look I gave her scared her away and I just walked out.

Please how do I snap out of this

You are angry because you are frustrated, because you are ineffective in accordance to your nature, because you lack clarity in your thoughts and emotions.

My suggestion is to write a journal. Write about everything that affects you, and then read it back to yourself. Make lists of what you like and don't like. That will at least point you in a better direction then drifting aimlessly

 

[BPH]

I think you need to do some introspection as to why you feel this way.

1. Not having found purpose by the age of 22 is perfectly normal. Most people your age just graduated, entered the job market, realized it sucks, and are living in an apartment their parents are paying for, driving a car they've financed or leased, and are paying down 10s of thousands of dollars in student loans.
2. Being broke doesn't exclude you from the dating market; I'm a bit of a testament to that. As for the cheating and wickedness, most of us are here in response to some sort of "event". I had an ex who cheated on me, lied and told me she was r*ped, gaslit me into feeling guilty because I wasn't there, broke up with me over the phone, and let me wallow in my depression until a mutual friend who still could view her social media showed me the truth of the situation. You need to understand that not all women are like that, otherwise you'll hold that against every new woman you meet.

Seriously, sit down and ask yourself why you feel this way, multiple times.

Why do you hate women?
Because I think they're all cheaters and wicked.
Why?
Because I was cheated on.
Why?
Because I chose poorly and didn't realize this woman lacked character.
Why?

And so on...

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You are angry because you hate yourself.

Start there and work on doing something about that.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I just see them as wicked people and I see all of them are cheaters.

Then you should be relieved you can’t date.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Hello good evening Brothers

I have something that I would love to share with you all..I don't know why I feel this way

1. I'm angry most of the time, my anger issues are just so bad. My anger issues go through many forms..the fact that I haven't found my purpose yet in life....I feel so angry when I'm not productive.
I just start my day and I'm so pissed off...I work around with my face frowned

2. This one is the worst but I'm beginning to hate women.. I think this is because I'm broke at the moment and I can't date anyone
I just see them as wicked people and I see all of them are cheaters.
I was discussing with my friend and he asked me one question "why do you hate women?"
I don't know how to snap out of this

I was in a situation where a woman asked me for help, the look I gave her scared her away and I just walked out.

Please how do I snap out of this

Why do you feel that you have no purpose in life? I see that you're 22 and broke. What do you do with your time? Are in college?

 

[Bingo-Player]

Lot of Black pill / Red pill influencers out there creating closed loop narratives

There are a lot in the current generation of women are narcissistic and over entitled but NOT ALL OF THEM

No reason to hate women , yes you can hate the rules of the game but thats not necessarily womens fault it everyone in society's fault

Your young , work on yourself

 

[corrector]

2. This one is the worst but I'm beginning to hate women.. I think this is because I'm broke at the moment and I can't date anyone

An injection of good energy:

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Anger stems from having false expectations.

If you think women should even give you the time of day "just because" and they don't, this will make you angry.

Once you accept that women (and the world in general) don't care about you AT ALL unless you deliberately give them a reason to, it lightens things up a bit.

Most modern humans are entitled and when the world clearly doesn't care about them anger is the most common result.

 

[sevbucmash]

Please how do I snap out of this

You probably have a mild form of autism. There is a test, don't know how accurate it is though.

Start from there.

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

You Socratic S-O-B! Touche!

Then you should be relieved you can’t date.

OP,

I remember being just as angry. For reasons that were perfectly rational to me at the time. People would often ask me "Why do you hate women?" I never did though. And women would say "Why do you go through the days with such anger in your heart?" I never actually said anything to indicate it, but almost everyone thought that was the case. Only it was more specific. I was asked two questions that a guy like me (probably you too) hates to be asked. 1.) Are you a misogynist? 2.) Are you gay?

Neither were true. I was just very (perhaps too) honest about how I felt and what I thought about typical female behavior. ESPECIALLY with their mate selection instincts. I remember ranting in earshot of people "What, his biceps are going to deflect bullets? His 'big for nuthin' bodybuilder self knows how to avoid an open hand slap to his jaw or escape a rear naked choke? He's one step away from not holding his pants and kicking his own ass for me anyway! I know what a belt is for! Women are stupid!" --- Or something to that effect.

I didn't hate women, little brother. I hated the way I felt. I hated not being good "enough" while deep down knowing that I was in fact better than the guys these women picked. My continued existence and not giving up nor letting my own emotions pilot my craft confirmed this for me when the first girl I ever dated, recently (and I mean last week recently) looked me up on social media. Exes still send me snide messages on occasion. Heck crushes from HS are having 'trouble in paradise' and are looking me up! lol

Dust yourself off and get ready to take more hits. Learn to avoid the hits. Learn to hit back, hit first or hit harder. Life doesn't 'get easier' and things just don't 'get better.' Despite those harsh truths like reality, death, taxes, pain and gravity, YOU can become stronger. YOU can become better. Life won't be easier per se, but you won't be as bothered by things you are prepared for or strong enough to handle. It's why we exist. Chin up. You found this place at 22.

 

[inquisitor]

Hello good evening Brothers

I have something that I would love to share with you all..I don't know why I feel this way

1. I'm angry most of the time, my anger issues are just so bad. My anger issues go through many forms..the fact that I haven't found my purpose yet in life....I feel so angry when I'm not productive.
I just start my day and I'm so pissed off...I work around with my face frowned

2. This one is the worst but I'm beginning to hate women.. I think this is because I'm broke at the moment and I can't date anyone
I just see them as wicked people and I see all of them are cheaters.
I was discussing with my friend and he asked me one question "why do you hate women?"
I don't know how to snap out of this

I was in a situation where a woman asked me for help, the look I gave her scared her away and I just walked out.

Please how do I snap out of this

1. Anger is normal but must be used productively. In what way are you not finding purpose, or are not being productive with your work? Channel your anger through that instead. Be angry because it fuels your productivity.
2. Women are not men, but that's no reason to hate women. You can date even if you're broke, and stop obsessing about cheating. Be neutral when understanding women, and you better find them interesting first if you want to learn to love them. You'll soon learn it's more about the value you bring to the relationship, but of course, there's always finances to be overcome, and therefore, you must learn to be resourceful, and creative, and with a mission to gain wealth. Humans are wicked. Who gives a sh!t? Have sex with a good woman anyway.